Men that suffer from premature ejaculation often feel embarrassed or humiliated for not being in control and their partners may feel frustrated. There are several treatments available for men suffering from premature ejaculation such as sex therapy and being prescribed an SSRI. Quite often sex therapy can uncover the underlying causes for premature ejaculation and treat those concerns.

Many men struggle with premature ejaculation, with the definition being ejaculation before or shortly after penetration and before the person wants to. The two types of premature ejaculation are primary and secondary. Primary has occurred since the start of the individual’s sexuality whereas secondary begins later in life.

Some common theories for the cause of premature ejaculation include, not being able to perceive arousal level, not frequently engaging in sexual activity, physiological causes, and evolutionary advantages. What many people may not realize is that relationship problems are frequently a contributing factor to premature ejaculation. Having different sexual preferences, power struggles, poor communication, lack of intimacy or physical affection can all contribute. Psychological factors like stress, depression, anxiety or performance anxiety, and low self-esteem may also lead to premature ejaculation.

Sex Therapy for Premature Ejaculation in Toronto

Sex therapy can uncover underlying problems that may be causing premature ejaculation. Speaking with a certified sex therapist can help ease the anxiety and embarrassment associated with premature ejaculation for men as well as their partners. Often, individuals can be taught helpful relaxation and awareness of one’s arousal that can assist in delaying ejaculation. A sex therapist may also recommend a combination of sex therapy and medicine such as SSRIs, depending on the individual and their circumstances.

If you believe yourself or you and your partner could benefit from the services of a sex therapist in Toronto call 647-295-5935 and make an appointment to see Esther Benbihy. Esther has a Masters Degree in Counselling Psychology, is registered with The College of Psychologists of Ontario, and has helped scores of Torontonians find a path through their difficulties and lead more satisfying sex lives.